“It is paradoxical that many educators and parents still differentiate between a time for learning and a time for play without seeing the vital connection between them.” -Leo F. Buscaglia
Engagement and creativity are necessary ingredients for learning; and we are never more engaged and creative then when we are involved in some form of play. Whether your kids enjoy playing with pine cones and mud, or Legos and videogames, or baby dolls and princess dresses, do you take some time to play along with them?
Some days are busy and distracted. Some things need to be taken care of, but this week I spent two days just focusing on play. Not directing it, but participating when asked, giving attention when wanted, and providing food, space, and freedom when they were warranted.
Without further ado, here's about a million pictures from our two days of play, and a handful of links addressing the importance of it, from nature play to technology play and everything in between.
Importance of Play (book chapter from The Play Years: Psychosocial Development)
Play, Creativity, and Lifelong Learning (post on Why Play Matters for Both Kids and Adults)
Research-Based Case for More Play and Less Pressure (annotated article: Alliance for Childhood)
Child-Driven Education (TED talk)
Play is More than Fun (TED talk)
25 Quotes About the Importance of Play (collection of quotes)
Wednesday (at home)
Literacy and artistic play: Sylvia and Ayla and I read books in bed first thing in the morning. Camille spent most of the day knitting, reading historical fiction, and creating color pencil art.
Performance play ("Watch me, Mama! Watch me!"): Sylvia and Ayla put on an extended living room talent show complete with oodles of costume changes.
ball bouncing and ball throwing
dancing and scarf twirling
rocking out with guitar
broom twirling and air bending
Outdoor and Physical play:
Thursday (within 8 miles of home);
Rough and Tumble Play: Whenever the girls (and I) wrestle, tickle, shake, and roll around like puppies, we have a strict Stop Means Stop! rule. This provides everyone with a measure of control over their own physical comfort level.
We drove 8 miles to our nearest library and took the time to stop many times along the way.
Cafe Play :)
When we are in the car, we often pull over to check out anything that is interesting to us. We sometimes like to imagine what animals are thinking.
a walk along the bike path
This big focus on play isn't much different than how we choose to live our everyday lives, except that we're a little less busy, and I'm choosing to be less distracted. Over the last two days, I have observed increases in problem-solving, interpersonal skills, risk-assessment, pushing boundaries, pulling back, asking for help, and testing out new ideas and theories. It could be because of the thawing weather, but we all seem to have felt an even greater sense of joy, connection, and well-being during these last two days.
The form of play isn't important, other than that it be open-ended and self-chosen. It will vary widely based on ages, temperaments, interests, days, seasons, and energy-levels.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Wishing you and your loved ones a playful day . . .